>How Many Is Too Many?

Posted: September 30, 2010 in casual, marriage, men, relationship, sex, women

>I was listening to the Michael Baisden show on the way to Baton Rouge today and they had an interesting topic:

How many people can a person sleep with before they are no longer considered marriage material?

Wow. That’s a tough one. Of course, the answers for men and women will be completely polar opposites. Let’s face it: if a woman says that she’s slept with 25 people by the age of 25, then she will be looked at a lot differently than a man with the same claim. Don’t blame me for that, blame society.

But, as a man, I can truly say that I don’t want to know how many men The Mrs. has been with in her life. There’s absolutely no way I want to know because whatever number she says will not be satisfactory to me. LOL! Hey, I’m just being honest. Therefore, we have our own version of “don’t ask, don’t tell” in our household.

But, how many is too many? Guys, what number can a woman throw out to you that makes you say “nah, I’ll pass”?

Ladies, what number can a man throw out to you that makes you not consider him marriage material? Join the discussion here!

  1. >GOOD QUESTION!! I'll be real with you! I keep my number to myself! I know how society thinks when it comes to chicks and their numbers so I know guys will consider my number to be fucking high like Rick James durring a recording session! Plus, I let guys come up with their own hypothosis on how many guys I've been with. They play a lot of guessing games when they see how EXPERIENCED I am lol…one of my ex's told me, "you don't learn that shit on the internet or by watching porn!" lolI just take it as a compliment lol. But it keep my number under wraps…or if they pressure me I JUST LIE ABOUT IT! LOL My number is always 5 lol knowing damn well its ridiculously larger than that lol

  2. TOY COUTURE says:

    >No guy wants to think there was any man before him so 1 name is too any!!! :)Great Post!

  3. This Daddy says:

    >Man, to be honest I am not sure it really matters. I mean if the one you love tells you it was alot, are you going to leave them. What is the person never cheated but was just a freak in the sheets? I mean if I screwed 20 girls but was never unfaithful to them am I prone to cheat on a wife, NO! People joke and sometimes tell the truth about it but I think it is all a relationship thing. It is never going to be the same answer.I tease my wife and tell her I know she never dated before me, it gives me a laugh and a reason for her to roll her eyes at me.

  4. Quincy says:

    >@ Falen – Five seems like a safe number. No man wants to hear his woman say that she's slept with the Oakland Raiders or anything like that. The best thing to do is just not say anything at all. A smart man won't ask, so if you have a man who does, throw him back because he's definitely not smart! LOL!

  5. Quincy says:

    >Agrees w/Toy Couture. As far as I'm concerned, The Mrs. was a virgin when I met her. LOL!@ This Daddy – It does depend on how far into the relationship the woman and I are at the time of finding out. If it's early on, then I can't see myself getting deeply involved. It also depends on her age. If she's 25 years old and has been in a bed with more men than a Motel 6 pillow, then I'm going to have a few issues.

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